Adjusting to life in Oxford
It’s a big adventure for the whole family, that’s for sure. The biggest adjustment has been coping without one’s support structure. Friends and family are not a hop, skip and a jump away any more, and that was really hard initially. I am mostly at school so Mari definitely had a bigger adjustment than me. But we made good friends really quickly, and we got Minay into a nice little school, so we’ve found our groove. Our tiny home is very central, which also helps a lot. Accommodation is extremely expensive here, but we lucked out with our little two-bedroomed cottage for the year. The lack of sun in winter is also something to get used to. However, this experience is definitely letting us grow as a family.

I do miss the Atterbury family as well, but at least keep regular contact which makes it more bearable.

A University steeped in tradition
Wow, wow, wow. It’s a beautiful university town, with such diverse people. I often go for a walk and just take in the grand architecture… I realise what a privilege it is to spend a year here. There are so many wonderful traditions! As an example, before we were admitted as official members of the university, all of the new students first had to “matriculate”. It’s a 700-year-old tradition and it entails that your college (which is responsible for your academic life) recommends you to Oxford University. The whole ceremony is conducted in Latin and you wear full academic dress (called “sub fusc”, which is Latin for “dark brown”). We’re also required to wear full sub fusc when sitting for exams. Embracing a tradition such as this is an experience in its own right! I’ve also played rugby for the university’s third team. Believe me, it was a challenge to hold my own among all the teenagers, but I won my “old man” respect!